Before I get into the whole arguement with I want to express my feelings. Feel free to skip this part and go directly to my opinion on engaged couples today. I flip flopped the pictures around, just because. But anyways, before I get off topic. I came to write this blog today because there has been so much on my mind. I hate it when people tell me that time will heal love because it honestly doesn't. I believe that overtime love only gets worse and that person you fell for; it gets harder and harder without them. I had this theory, that after a while I would move onto new and better things. Funny thing is, there is nothing better. People may find me crazy for saying this but its true. Once you fall in love you never want that other out of your life, and once they walk out is the most painful thing a human being has to go through. I'm saying this today because I've had it happen to me, recently, a few months back. I have yet to let go of any memories, I have yet to let go of his voice, I have yet to let go of the love I have for him. I will never fall for someone as hard as I did for him. I still believe in us, and I always will. I'll wait for him.
What exactly does the word "engaged" mean to all of you? Yes, I know I'm a teenager too so I'm not going to come out by saying you young children. It's just so funny the way our generation doesn't take an engagement seriously. Just because you've been dating that person for over half of a year doesn't mean your going to be with them forever. Society today uses the words "I Love You" in ways they shouldn't and nobody actually takes time to realize the true meaning. I will say so myself that I was once in love. Who cares, if "i'm only seventeen." Age doesn't matter; once you find that person you find them. Love is an incredible thing and it's something that I will always cherish. But what bugs me the most is how people believe getting engaged at such a young age truly means forever. Nobody knows the feelings you have for your significant other. In my opinion, in order to be engaged and certain of marriage couples should be together for a few years, and at an older age. I look at it as, if your going to be engaged and get married then why get engaged now? Why not just wait and get engaged when your older, when the time is right. Why now? In high school. Love is a feeling, and you can't control it. Nobody can tell you who to love and nobody can tell you who you can't love. You just can't help the feeling. There's no true description I can give to you who have not yet felt love because it's undescribable, it really is and you will know exactly what I mean when that time comes for you.
Before I get into the whole arguement with I want to express my feelings. Feel free to skip this part and go directly to my opinion on engaged couples today. I flip flopped the pictures around, just because. But anyways, before I get off topic. I came to write this blog today because there has been so much on my mind. I hate it when people tell me that time will heal love because it honestly doesn't. I believe that overtime love only gets worse and that person you fell for; it gets harder and harder without them. I had this theory, that after a while I would move onto new and better things. Funny thing is, there is nothing better. People may find me crazy for saying this but its true. Once you fall in love you never want that other out of your life, and once they walk out is the most painful thing a human being has to go through. I'm saying this today because I've had it happen to me, recently, a few months back. I have yet to let go of any memories, I have yet to let go of his voice, I have yet to let go of the love I have for him. I will never fall for someone as hard as I did for him. I still believe in us, and I always will. I'll wait for him.
What exactly does the word "engaged" mean to all of you? Yes, I know I'm a teenager too so I'm not going to come out by saying you young children. It's just so funny the way our generation doesn't take an engagement seriously. Just because you've been dating that person for over half of a year doesn't mean your going to be with them forever. Society today uses the words "I Love You" in ways they shouldn't and nobody actually takes time to realize the true meaning. I will say so myself that I was once in love. Who cares, if "i'm only seventeen." Age doesn't matter; once you find that person you find them. Love is an incredible thing and it's something that I will always cherish. But what bugs me the most is how people believe getting engaged at such a young age truly means forever. Nobody knows the feelings you have for your significant other. In my opinion, in order to be engaged and certain of marriage couples should be together for a few years, and at an older age. I look at it as, if your going to be engaged and get married then why get engaged now? Why not just wait and get engaged when your older, when the time is right. Why now? In high school. Love is a feeling, and you can't control it. Nobody can tell you who to love and nobody can tell you who you can't love. You just can't help the feeling. There's no true description I can give to you who have not yet felt love because it's undescribable, it really is and you will know exactly what I mean when that time comes for you. 
anyone who gets engaged in high school is a retard.
ReplyDeleteand, i love you. and believe me baby, i know exactly where you are coming from with your feelings because i went through something IDENTICAL with some stinky butthead too.
just trust me, eventually it DOES get easier. it takes a VERY long time though. but there will come a time where you will be able to go a whole day without thinking about them or missing them. but trust me, its impossible to fully let them go because even though you will go days, maybe even weeks, without them crossing your mind, there will be days you think about them constantly and what could have been.
im rambling, but just know i love you & if you ever wanna talk, ill listen. because ive been there & still deal with it to this day.
<333 loveeyou maaa.